Which one is more important, which one comes first, Freedom or Love? The very definition of freedom – what the word ‘freedom’ points to in this site – is ‘unconditional awareness.’
‘Unconditional’ means ‘not dependent on any condition.’ Perhaps not everyone likes the idea of an unconditional awareness. If something appears to consist of theoretical ‘BS,’ of empty words, then I don’t feel attracted to it.
When I hear the words ‘unconditional awareness’ or ‘freedom’ it means more to me than anything else. Why? Because love – even the highest form of love – is born from an awareness of freedom.
To make it simple: If you feel restricted by your mind and its limited beliefs that lead to worries, anxieties, fears (of death), do you think you can sense love?
Let’s look at the meaning of love. Pure love, by definition, is unconditional too, like freedom. If I attach conditions to love, then it is not pure, then it is dysfunctional, so to speak, under certain circumstances.
My opinion is that unconditional love can’t operate unless it is a spontaneous outflow of unconditional freedom. Unconditional love is a testimonial for its origin: Inner Freedom.
Conditional love (loving one’s dog, family members, etc) is not to be discarded! Don’t dry out your stream of love into this universe, whether this stream flows towards a dog, humans, or hobbies. In our daily lives we should allow ourselves to do what we love most. In allowing us to do so, the ‘allowing’ will spill over to include others. We start appreciating when others allow themselves to do what they love most, in all areas, privately and professionally.
Unconditional love is not going to take away our personal loves. Unconditional love will allow our personal loves to float in the space of freedom, like beautiful clouds float within the limitless sky.